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Faith-Based and Whole-Self Tips for
Befriending Your Inner Critic
Blog by Meredith Gardner, Master Certified Life Coach
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Use Tapping to Self-Regulate
Tapping, also known as Emotional Freedom Technique (EFT), is a simple tool that combines gentle tapping on acupressure points with mindful awareness of what you’re feeling. The acupressure points used most often are on the face around the eyes, under the nose, and on the chin. There are also points on the collarbone, under the arm and on top of the head. It may look a little unusual at first, but it’s incredibly easy to learn and can become a powerful way to calm your nervous
Meredith Gardner
2 days ago2 min read


Boredom vs. Avoidance
When it comes to working on our goals or doing something challenging we often say: “I’m bored.” But sometimes boredom isn’t actually boredom. True boredom happens when a task is under-stimulating. Repetitive tasks like data entry, filing paperwork, or organizing spreadsheets can leave the brain craving novelty and challenge. In these cases, adding music, turning the task into a game, or batching similar tasks together can help. But other times, what we call boredom is actuall
Meredith Gardner
May 112 min read


Make Connections Instead of Corrections
In so many of our relationships—especially the close, everyday ones—it’s easy to slip into “correction mode.” It’s easy to notice what’s off, what needs fixing, and what could be better - in others. We jump in quickly, often with good intentions, but miss something essential in the process: Connection. Being a Safe Place for Others Is Easier When You Have A Strong Sense of Self The truth is, people don’t care about your opinions or how much you know. Just like you, they want
Meredith Gardner
May 42 min read


Why You Overeat—and How to Stop
Most conversations about overeating focus on the obvious: stress, cravings, lack of discipline. But one of the most powerful drivers is far more subtle. Sometimes the inner critic doesn’t sound harsh at all. It sounds… reasonable. “You’ve had a long day.” “This will take the edge off.” “Just a little more—it’s fine.” And just like that, you’re halfway through the bag before you even realize what happened. The Sneaky Setup The inner critic isn’t always loud and shaming at the
Meredith Gardner
Apr 273 min read


Get Back on Track
The phrase “get back on track” comes from the world of railroads—specifically during the rise of systems like the Transcontinental Railroad. When a train slipped off its rails, everything came to a halt. Progress stopped. But the goal wasn’t to scrap the journey—it was to carefully, steadily guide the train back onto the track so it could keep moving forward. That image is a helpful one when life pulls us out of our routines. Maybe your mornings have gotten rushed. Maybe your
Meredith Gardner
Apr 212 min read


The Quiet Key to Overcoming
I used to think overcoming meant pushing harder, figuring it out faster, or finally “getting it right.” But during my Master Coach Certification, I learned something entirely different: Acceptance is what actually makes growth possible. Each week, I was introduced to new concepts—powerful, nuanced, and often overwhelming. I wanted to grasp them quickly, to embody them with ease. Instead, I found myself stuck. There were moments when the overwhelm felt so intense that I would
Meredith Gardner
Apr 133 min read
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